MATTHEW 5:4

MATTHEW 5:4

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   In The Beatitudes, we read:  "Blessed are they that mourn:  for they shall be comforted."  Matthew 5:4  King James Version (KJV) Public Domain

   If you will allow me to rant for a moment:  My sister died.  I had fasted, prayed, anointed her head with oil, prayed, fasted some more, and prayed earnestly; but she died.  My grief has been beyond unbearable.  It was severe and debilitating.   I needed help in the worst way, so I turned to The Only One Who I knew could help me, my God.   Help me, Lord.

   Well, I was highly disappointed.  This verse is not to direct us to the comfort for our selfish sorrow, grief, etc.  That is not to say that He will not comfort us, it is that this particular verse is often quoted when a loved one graduates to heaven and leaves us to complete our own mission here.  It is a misuse of this verse.

   So, what, then, does this verse mean?  It IS talking about the condition of the heart, but not sorrow due to the loss of things/people of this world.  It is talking about the recognition of our sin and our sorrowful heart due to our sins, our defying the will of God.  When we come to the throne of God and confess our sin with a contrite heart, He is faithful and just to forgive us (1 John 1:9) and give us joy, knowing we have been washed clean of ALL of our sin.  We nail our sin to the cross as we kneel at the foot of the cross and receive cleansing from the blood of Jesus for all of our iniquity.  We walk away without even a blemish.  God removes our sin as far as the east is from the west.  (Psalm 103: 12)

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    I love how God set things up from the beginning.  We can travel north until we reach a certain point, then we travel south.  But we can travel east circling the entire Earth and never travel west.  East never meets West and vice versa.  So our sin is forever away from us!

   So, we have sorrow for our sin and confess it and repent, and we receive joy.  We MUST forgive ourselves when God forgives us.  In the words of Franklin D. Roosevelt, "Yesterday is not ours to recover, but tomorrow is ours to win or lose."  Or, we can use the famous quote from Timon and Pumbaa (The Lion King):  "Put your behind in the past." (He meant to say, "Put your past behind you.")  You are not greater than God, so, when He forgives (and He does), leave it alone.  Yes, I am talking to YOU!) We all need to work on forgiveness, especially forgiving ourselves.  The past is gone and there is no going back and fixing it.  Build on lessons learned from it.

   Give our guilt, shame, doubt, fear, regret, all we can do nothing about; give it all to Jesus and watch Him renew our souls and give us a bright tomorrow.

   Now, about my grief, let me say that Jesus was in the Garden of Gethsemane, sweating blood, praying to His Father to devise another way for us to be reconciled us to Him.  God said, "No."  God does not need me as His consultant, either.  If He denied Jesus, who am I to impose my will?  I will follow Job in saying, "The Lord gives, and The Lord takes away; Blessed be the name of The Lord." (Job 1:21)  I had my sister for much of my life.   She was a fantastic sister to me.  I didn't say she was perfect, but she was mine.  I praise His Name that He gave her to me for the time I had with her and for our relationship.  No regrets.

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